28 May, 2011

Why Don't Girls Like Me?

       I'm not so ugly. Nor dwarf, Is it that I prefer to listen to classical music and metal music? Could it be my skin color?  What is it about me these girls just don't like?.......
 Mark c, Canada

I'm Male and 19 . I've never had a girlfriend and I don't understand why? I've never really had any girl like me from what I know of. While nearly all my friends have had some sort of relationship during their lifetime. And am confused! What am I doing wrong?...Smith O.London 

I don't see what's wrong with me. Girls like my friends, but not me.......... Leonard,  Ghana 

 Are you in same category with Mark, Smith or Leonard? If you have found yourself a victim of these catastrophic feelings, then don't give up! There is and will always be solution to the problem, as we grow up, our demands in life and lifestyle changes. No doubt  you are old enough to date! You are eager to know that girl better, and to make her like you, but seems all effort proved abortive. She as a girl has the right to choose who to love, but why must it be just your friends hanging out with girls and not you?
                                         THE POWER OF ATTRACTION!
Successful relationship is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become" 
 Every great achiever knows that certain mental laws exist by which you can turn all your dreams into reality. The law of attraction is one of the most important to understand, and make you get that your heart desired,
      And now your dream is getting to make a girl like you!, here  is where you apply the attraction law, pursing that girl will never make her to like you genuinely.
                                    ATTRACT HER TO YOURSELF
       Do you think that  you are attractive as your lucky friends?.She needs to see that you are attractive before you really attempt to attract her. Attractive in the sense that you have something to offer,something about  you that makes the  girl  want to be around you or get to know you better? Or are you the type that scare away the average girl by mere seeing your gesture? Due to any number of reasons, one of which probably includes personal hygiene. If you want any one to like you, you need to give them a reason they should like you. Always think of the thing that has to do with the other person,  Whether that be good looks, money, social skills,  or anything else. Always remember what you want
      Personal hygiene can enhance yourself-confidence and improve your chances of success in many areas of your life. A lack of it can have certain social and health ramifications. Lack of personal hygiene can sabotage your effort to impress and finally attract any  girl, apart from shattering your dream to make any girl like you,lack of personal hygiene can lead to a staph infection called MRSA,
    I hate that boy, he sat beside me in the classroom and when he talks
     wow, he has a very  bad breath that   smells like a dead 
          fish, argh! I cant just  talk with him to the face.
                Rita, South-Africa.
            Good manners help put others at ease and therefore make social interactions more pleasant. Simple courtesies like saying "please," "thank you" "you are looking good" show that you acknowledge another person as more than an object. Good manners aid friendships and are vital  for success in getting any girl to like you, no girl likes to date any mannerisms boy, ask yourself do people know me as someone of good manners? Do my parents or close buddies complains a lot about my behavior?Offer her your hand when she's stepping on an uneven surface. Hold out your hand so you can lead her through a crowd. If she's worried, put your hand lightly on her shoulder to comfort her. These are all polite ways to get a little closer to a girl without being creepy.  Even if they put up a tough front, so make sure the touching is light; for example, don't slap her on the back. If you see any signs of discomfort stop!.
        What I find attractive in a boy is when he has good manners
       I always don't fancy  his looks but his manners, in doing
        things like opening the door for me,  and being himself
              No doubt you really like the girl, you have to like everything about her, always look for something that is really special, talk about it, is it her eyes? Her nose, her body shape? However take note that most girls who are beautiful don't fancy  some compliment like---"you are so beautiful" or "I like ur blue eyes" because they have heard enough of it from other guys before you, If anything is different or new (her lips,her hairstyle, shoe, shirt) make note of it. The more unique, the compliment, the better received it will be. Always don't compliment her on sexual feature such as I like your B**B, that  might embarrass her and it shows you are not keeping it original.
    I always remember any good compliment from a boy                                                      
if  it is based on selfless intentions, it makes me think much 
 about that boy for a long time
          Don't joke with your looks, learn from  male celebrities! The celebrities from different areas of life put strong effects on public fashion generally and fans, everyone likes to look attractive, it takes time
yet worth the  effort,  do some sit ups, get a six pack, so when you go to the pool and she is there, she will be like, "wow." Also get a tan, Girls like a guy with a tan and some muscles, but don't overdo it; no girl will like you if you overdo it.             
           My fiance is very  sexy  and my friend is                                                            
     jealous of me because of his looks, his killing                         
 abs,  I cant afford to loose him to any girl...  
 If you think a friend you admire might make a good marriage mate, let her know you are interested in her. Be clear and forthright in declaring your feelings. Yes, it can be nerve-racking. You fear rejection. However your being and willing to take the initiative is a sign that you man enough.